Commitment Phobics

I have this boy friend
Just a few weeks ago
He told me his relationship problems
He really like this girlfriend who is now in Singapore
They have been together for more than one year
He can even see his future with her
He asked me how to make his girlfriend committed to him just like him to her
I told him some of the ways that will generally touch a girl
But I also asked him to be prepare
That this girl will withdraw herself anytime if he force her too much
And today they broke up

We can never force a commitment phobic to commit to one person or one thing
One method to deal with these commitment phobics is to live happily yourself
Show them that you can live with or without them
And then let them figure out their own problem
If they can't see their future with you
No matter how hard you try to persuade him that both of you have a future
They will leave eventually

If they finally figure out you're the one
They will come back to you
So don't stick around with them
Go out make more friends
See if there are other options out there
If he or she can't commit
You don't too =)

Well love...
To me is like
Either you're hurt by others
Or you hurt others
Then the person who gets hurt gets scared
And he or she might be reserved in the next relationship
Then if the relationship doesn't work out again
The next person gets hurt
Like a cycle
Until you finally open out your heart and found a person who eventually open out his or her heart too
When both parties finally knows how to love maturely

All the broke up reasons are bullshits to me
Because love is a choice
You choose not to love this person
You choose to love this person

Love is still beautiful
We just need to learn