Mar 30, 2012

男人

听说男人是很简单的动物
要了解他们很容易
女人在从他们的弱点下一点功夫
男人就会倒在女人的石榴裙下

譬如说
小动作像摸头发都会吸引男人的目光
交叉动作男人也觉得很有吸引力
男人都是三个东西组成的
一,恋母情结
二,好色
三,自尊心
占的部分不一样而已
知道他哪一个部分占比较多
你就赢了
如果他恋母情结比较深
就时不时act像他妈妈
如果他很好色
就适当的引诱他
如果他自尊心很重
就保护他脆弱的自尊心

遇到喜欢的男子
不要主动邀约
他邀约第一次还要拒绝
男人都喜欢好像很难拿到手的东西
越难得到
他就越珍惜你
当然条件是要他也对你有兴趣
如果他不约你
那你就知道你应该换下个目标

要让他有兴趣
就常常出现在他出现的地方

还有男人最喜欢女人撒娇
会撒娇的女人婚后最幸福

男人也很喜欢女人的赞美
他会很觉得他很厉害
他会很爱惜你的

还有一定要扮美
虽然他们口头上说不介意女孩素颜
不在乎女孩的打扮
但是如果你上一点妆
穿的美一点
他们会觉得你很有吸引力
也就是说
男人喜欢又美又有自信的女人
别忘了
男人都是视觉系动物
在什么状态下都要美美的!

男人其实不喜欢太假的女生
也就是说
不需要太做作
就算他真的喜欢上这个做作的你
久而久之当他发现你的真面目时
就是他离开你的时候
做最自然的你
他们如果喜欢你
就是喜欢你 :)

Mar 28, 2012

Nanny

I think I'm a part time nanny now
Taking care of two little kids
One 10 month years old
Another 2 years old

This 10 month years old baby cannot sit still
Keep moving around
I swear I hold the camera firmly
This kid just moved around restlessly
I think I took 10 photos
All this blurry lol



This baby is so damn cuteeeee right
Especially when he smiles
Everything melted when he smiles haha
His name is yang jia :)
Also got a jia :D


This 2 years old kid keep looking for me
Every morning
I'll be woke up by these voices
"je je leh, je je leh, je je leh x10"
And I call the younger baby "Hi, Ba...by"
This kid also follows me call the baby "Ba...by"
So funny
And this kid's name is jun jun




And they all like one thing
My computer
Once they get in my room
Their eyes land on my computer
At first I thought the 10 years old baby couldn't move my laptop
But to my surprise he can!!!
My heart nearly jumped out when i saw him pushing my laptop lol


Oh ya
Dont know why my facebook was giving this birthday gift card for free
I just got to know I was sending all this spams when someone click like on the wall post
I dont even know when this things starts sending
I remember I click it when people send it during my birthday
I never touch on the apps later on
Now only i realized i've been sending too
Or it just started
I really don't know
Its so weird
Just deleted the apps
Hopefully it wont spam people again

Mar 25, 2012

艳遇

想不到在job fair那么严肃的场合里
也有艳遇lol

在茫茫人海中
这个菲利嫔人就排在我后面
聊两下聊开了
就这样他就跟着我整个career fair

有他在
真的挺好的
一小时的排队也没那么闷
他很sociable
谁都聊的开
还会介绍我给他们认识lol
感觉有点像在介绍女朋友
感觉太好了
哈哈

Mar 22, 2012

请骂我吧

我这个人真的很欠骂
请大家骂我一下
我的糊涂ness真的太恐怖了
昨天有个银行call我
说等下会有人call我
等一下真的有人call我明天去interview
老娘以为是同一个bank

之后就去interview
把电话silence了
有个misscall
可是太迟了所以没打回去

隔一天
去到那间大厦
忘了带地址
问一问那边的询问处
哪一间银行在哪里
他们跟我说这边没有
要去另一边
我说我很肯定那个bank在这边
只是不知哪个unit
他们叫我去另一座大厦
我想了想call去那个office
好的有了unit no
上楼去
去到那边
SHIT
WHAT THE HELL is this company
马上看一下office写什么
看到一个management字
就猜应该是audit firm或accounting firm
那人拿form来
position applied:
What the hell!!??
What position did i apply?
没时间panic
老娘就搏一搏
应该跟accounting有关系
好彩
过关!~~~应该真的是accounting assistant
再来一个问题
”Why are you interested in our company?“
我心想说我也想知道lol
当然我给了官方的答案
虽然什么都不懂
随便shoot了几句
讲了都心虚那种
什么都没准备的感觉真不好

我准备的答案都是for那个bank
customer service rep 的答案
哪里知道
杀出个Accounting position
我真的很气我自己
糊涂到这种地步

我绝对不会再做类似的mistakes!!!!!!!!
清醒点
李佳璇

放下=新的开始

当你不再执着放下屠刀时
就会是美好的开始

一两个月前的我
还很想要在外国做工
两个星期前
我已经放下了
放下不代表放弃
如果在这边没有我想要的工
我就回去马来西亚
一两年后再来 :D
我只知道我一直朝我的梦想走 :)

当我已经放下时
这星期尽然有三个interview
而且都是bank或者比较大的公司
虽然只是first interview
也不知能不能通过
但机会来啦!!~
真是开心
嘻嘻

Mar 20, 2012

我要你

明天有个interview for personal banker position
坦白的这次真的有点小小小的紧张lol
也许是因为想要吧
之前的我还可以和interviewer谈笑风声

要提醒自己
放轻松!~
做我自己!
老娘我很有条件一下的咯
怕你有牙麽

嘻嘻

Mar 19, 2012

小资女孩向前冲

这部戏好好看哟
很好笑
每一集都笑
ka wai,不知你看了没
如果看了
有没有觉得里面的男主角像一个人哈哈
少爷脾气
走路的样子
花钱的习惯
还有花边新闻也那么多的
像极他lol
只是没子奇那么帅
也没他那么成熟

我发现到ho
当一个男生爱上一个女生
而且锁定会娶的时候
是最帅的时候
因为他成熟啦!!~
从一个男孩变一个会承担责任的男人啦
我也听说
一个男人可以谈很多次恋爱
但他知道哪个他会娶回家的
像子奇一样!~~
lol
希望希望未来我也可以遇到一个秦子奇 :DD
不管有什么困难
他会说“我只要李佳璇”
哈哈哈哈

my brother

My brother called me the other day
Our conversations is below:

Me: " Hallo"
Bro: " Hi"
I remember my brother's voice
Me: " Ah gor ho?"
Bro: " Is this Miss Lee Jia Xuan?"
I thought I mistaken my brother with someone else.
Me: "Yes?"
Bro: " Miss Lee Jia Xuan. You've got a job offer."
I was like what's going on?
I paused
Bro: "You've got a job offer as...as a pilot"
Followed by his famous laughter
Me: "....."

This is my brother
Actually I'm so lucky to have him as my brother
He's the person i respect the most
He's humble
Never shows off
He is always that happy face no matter what happens
I've never heard him complaining about anything in front of anyone
He's very filial
He also take care of his sisters like me:DD
He listens to his wife
He loves his wife in a way which every girl will jealous of
He basically care for the people around him
He's damn smart
He always comes out with lots of ideas
He's a positive thinker
He likes to joke
He likes to laugh
His friends told me
"We can know your brother is here in the building even though we didn't see him yet"
I was like "huh"
His friends "His laughter lo, so unique and loud. Everyone knows his laughter."
Although he's 32 now
People still think he's a university student
I think because he has a young heart and positive mind
That's why he looks forever young
He likes to laugh not because he has no problems
I know he faces with a lot of issues everyday
A phd student/lecturer/researcher/entrepreneur
Its like 4 roles n its for work only
He choose to be happy regardless of the work load
This is something I'm still learning :DD
Although he always bully me
I know he very care for me :DDD
So lucky to have him as my brotherrrr :DDDDD

Rainnie

The weather in Singapore issssssssss
EXTREMELY UNPREDICTABLE
Last minute we were sweating because of the heat
Next minute the sky turn dark
The wind howl
The storm strikes
Then started raining heavily
While we were still mourning over the rain
5 minutes later
It stops
Really geli lol
An umbrella is a must in Singapore lol

Like today forgot to bring umbrella
Wow
Raindrops keeps falling on my head
Awesome lol
Actually I think i must look very cool
I was in formal suit (went to an interview)
But I'm all steady LOL
Because I'm so enjoy in the rain
May be I've learned to enjoy the rain and the snow when I was in the States lol
Just hope I wont fall sick tomorrow :D

Mar 18, 2012

The Cash Flow Game

hehehehe
Friend brought me over to his company's event on this cash flow game
It is so much fun and interesting!!~~
3 groups of us compete to win the first prize haha
SO FUN la
I think my group is the most passionate haha
Played halfway everybody was standing lol
And I got the doctor card
Everybody called me doctor haha
And the person sitting beside me got nurse
He say he serves for me haha
The other person say he wants to marry me cause i'm the doctor who earn the most
So fun la
Although our group didn't get the first prize but i think our group was the most fun :DD
Oh yaaa
3 groups 12 persons
I'm the only girl again!!
Why ah only guys interested in getting the money ah?lol
But I'm so used to hanging around in guys group
So no problem for me
Although few of them quite handsome
I still can hold my passion HAHA
Glad that I'm still single and available hahaha

Okay serious business here okay
I'm not a hua chi!!!!
Cash flow game is a game design to help people to have a faint idea about the real world
Which i think its really useful to take this as a guide to get to your dream
It emphasize on
PASSIVE INCOME > TOTAL EXPENSES
Then you get financial freedom
The way to get passive income is by
1)Acquiring Real Estate
2)Stocks & Bonds
3)Building Business
And don't hold so much cash on hand
Use it to invest!
Of course, its not as easy as in the game
Because in real world, you have to look for the opportunities
Really look into it

Okay I'm so fascinated in getting my dreams :))
I'm working on it :DD

Mar 17, 2012

wei jia xingfu



testing testing heheh
fell in love with this song when qing zhi qi sings this in the movie :))

Mar 15, 2012

工作与选伴侣

突然想起
不知看那本书
里面提起工作态度与选伴侣有着相关的关系
看一个人他在工作里马马虎虎
那他的男/女朋友也是随便来随便选
反之
若他在工作里很谨慎
那他在选男/女朋友也一样

难怪我找工那么久
找男朋友更久
原来是个人选择爱好
我就是比较谨慎

这可以当作你选男女朋友的参考哟

Mar 13, 2012

thanksgiving lol

Down to JB today
The first time i went down by car
It was so last minute decision
Had duck for lunch and char koey tiao for dinner
And kuih muih for tomorrow's breakfast
Awesomeeee
My biao jie is so nice!!~~
Imma treat her and her husband a nice meal once i get job
Oh and Cheryl and Xiao Yu
They all gave me a treat knowing me still unemployed LOL
I really appreciate :)
I remember last time ZY also drove me around
And dont want take my money for the medicine haha
But i gave to Caren in the end lol
And Caren!!
She kept me for few weeks at her house and cook for me
Jia Wei also!~
My best gossip partner there hahaha
May be we're both Saggitarian so we have similar characteristic lol
Hmmmmm who else
Oh Cha Nee too haha
Pulled me through the hard times by being my company
Okay la my ex too la lol
Although he hurted me the most
But I know he wants me to be happy in the end
I have so many nice friends nice relatives
I'm so blessed :)
Everything that happened led to a better me :D

Just watch A TED video by Shawn
He ask us to do brain exercise just like body needs exercise
One of them is to write about happy things that happened within 24 hours
And write 3 new gratitude everyday
So then the brain remember the pattern
And we'll be happy all the time:))

Peace & Love,
Xuan <3

Mar 12, 2012

不要不要 ^^




好喜欢这首歌哟!!~~



不要不要 胡搞瞎搞 不要不要 亂七八糟
你得不到 也別困擾 乖乖很好 說好不好
我說不要 不是不要 有時不巧 有時顛倒
時間還早 世事難料
也搞不 好 好 好 又 要 要 要 要 要







邱泽好帅哟 <3 <3

Mar 11, 2012

离开上课的日子

踏出学堂
步入人情世故
虽还未上班
这种感觉已弥漫我的心
不能再扮单纯
20几岁所谓的单纯就是笨蛋
越早明白现实越好
这个世界可以很美好
也可以很残酷
就看你面对一些挫折时
心理准备的怎样
能不能看到另一方更绿的草地
还是停留在眼前的沙漠

现在是我人生中最放松的时刻
没有功课的烦恼
没有工作的压力
是最佳充实自己的黄金时间

我已慢慢改了一些坏习惯
我提早10分钟出门
要迟到的是别人不会是我了
我不再太迟睡
迟睡很伤身
每天要更爱自己一点
这是我自己的责任
想要做的东西就去做
人生有几个十年lol

好多朋友不是在工作
就是final year
都好忙

现在在看这本书

刚刚开始看
挺不错的


Peace & Love,
Xuan ^^

Mar 10, 2012

pasar mai cai

I like to watch guys do pasar grocery lol
They just take the vege and put inside the basket lol
They seldom select
They just shoot and go
So cute isn't it LOL
They're even more masculine when they're in the kitchen haha

The world has change
Cooking is no longer girl's patent
Guys need to know how to cook to impress the girls hahaha
Undeniable
A good cooker is always a turn on for me
Cheers for guys who cook well :DD


Peace & Love,
Xuan <3

Mar 9, 2012

come here baby, mr lucky

这几天联络上两个在NUS读书的朋友
一个和我同年读Science
一个大大过我读Engineering
两个竟然都在business行
一个Financial consultant
一个Business Development Executive
赢料咯
难怪我酱难找工的lol

有啦
没那么没market啦
是有人要以低薪水请我拉
小公司
才1.8k 到2k
又没其他benefit
怎么做lol

希望这两人说要帮我看看的朋友
真的可以点条路给我
LUCK PLEASE COME TO MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Mar 8, 2012

another 3kg yo?

Hang out with one friend the other day
We talked about weight and BMI
She said: " You know that guy(our friend), his BMI only 17 plus leh.Yorr, very thin"
I said: " My BMI only 16 plus if i'm not wrong."
She said: " But you don't look that thin."
I said: "May be I remember wrongly, may be its 18 plus"
Because I figured the guy really look much more thinner than I am.
She said: " Yalah, that guy is too thin edi. You don't look that thin."

After i check out my BMI
Its really 16
Normal BMI should be above 18.5
Luckily I don't look that thin haha
BUT I WANT TO PUT ON WEIGHT SERIOUSLY
I'm not showing off please
What's the good of being too thin
You tend to catch cold more often
You tend to get sick more often
And you look fragile LOL

I'm not greedy
I just want another 3kg lol
I've done what you told me to do
What doctor told me to do
I eat and eat and never let myself goes hungry
But the weight seems to be constant?
What the heck?
May be i need to get pregnant give birth to a child only can put on weights LOL

Mar 7, 2012

清静---Peace

我发现
之前有几个常常找我讲话的人
最近都没找了
嘻嘻
尤其有一个
之前天天和我报道他的行踪
他做了什么
我没回复也至少一天一封

以前觉得好烦
不知几时开始
才发现少了些什么
原来是他不在和我新闻报告了
是啊
真的好像少一点东西lol
不过很清静挺好的
也或许我最近都喜欢隐身吧
没在等谁
也没有想要天天聊的朋友
我真的很难喜欢上一个人
他妈的lol

我现在终于明白了
如果一个男生天天找你
就是他对你有意识
如果当你是朋友的男生朋友
不会天天找你的 lol
只要主动靠近你
你就要注意啦

不过也有不一样的男生啦
只是普遍上都是这样
当他意识到你对他没兴趣时
马上收身不再和你有联络
当然还有些还是想和你做朋友
那些其实是真的很喜欢你
因为就算你拒绝他
他也可以接受继续留在你身边

不过爱情这种东西
不是说他是好男人
就能在一起
这就不是爱情了
没来电就是没来电 lol
爱情一半是情,一半是欲
这欲就是化学效应
有就有
没有就没有
北极南极就相吸
北极北极就想撤
很自然的东西

有时候你都没想过你会喜欢这种人
偏偏你就喜欢上他
就像我的ex
我真的不知为什么当初喜欢他lol
他很讲究衣着
我以为我喜欢的是大剌剌的阳光男孩
他小我两岁
我幻想的是大过我的
他给人感觉就像花花公子
偏偏我常常骂花花公子 lol
居然还跟他在一起哈哈
厉害呗
这就是所谓的化学效应

可是单单这种化学效应是维持不久的
一定要有情
这情就是双方培养出来的默契
有情有欲就能长久啦~~ :D

有一点我肯定的就是
我以后的partner
一定是个诚实坦白的人
我不需要猜他在想什么
自己跟我说

我最不喜欢
明明喜欢又说不喜欢的人
你可以说你害羞
这样的话
就不ngam我拉lol
因为在感情上
我是被动的
一定要个主动的来牵我走

我也很喜欢自动自发的人
不用做一点小事就好像很辛苦酱
这点我发现到
去外国留学生比较有这种精神
要吃什么自己煮
吃完了自己洗
或者他煮
他就洗
很自然的不需要叫的
我很喜欢这种精神
不会就学

所以我应该还是会喜欢上留学生lol

12点了!!!
该睡觉了咯
good nightttt

Peace & Love,
Xuan :D

Look me in the eyes



Look me in the eyes
What did you see

Its violet eye shadow haha
But its like no difference with the nude color in the picture
OH
I WAS WEARING LENS!!!
So happy I know how to wear lens edi!!!
Heheheh



Went to recruitment agency today
She used the word "very rare" to describe the market opportunities for the foreigners this year

Fine
No big deals lol
Just go back KL lo lol

Ah............
When my bro and my da sao in France
They were robbed!
Thousands of cash and passport gone
But i think insurance will cover up some hehe
Losing the passport is the most burdensome
My brother can do there (with the visa) but not my da sao
So they gonna come back early
Just wanna remind you people out there
BE ALERT when you visit France
This is not the first time i heard people (like us foreigners) getting robbed in France

Mar 6, 2012

have you smiled today? :)

i'm feeling happy
dont know why lol
may be because i've finish reading my fav author's book
"Happiness in Hard Times"


He taught me I can choose happiness!! =D
" Do you want to be happy? Decide now, "Nobody owes me anything. Whatever anybody gives me is a bonus. " =D
And loving myself
"Its no one else's responsibility to love you. Its your responsibility to love yourself" <3
And the trick to the game of life is to feel happy, grateful and content first!
He taught me to focus on what I have
Not what i don't have
And live in the present
"All you can do is give your best effort until bedtime. Let tomorrow take care of itself." =D
One very useful tip is to let go!
The more emotional you have about things, the less control you have
Once we can let go, we are in position of power
And this is so for me
Disinterested people say, "Who cares and why bother?"
Desperate people say, "If i dont get this I'll die."
When you are determined and detached, you say
"One way or another, I'll get a good job- and I don't care how long it takes" :)
There are so much more in the book
I will recommend to anyone who seeks happiness =D

I'm happy
Bcoz
I'm staying in a condo with a beautiful swimming pool

Can swim and jacuzzi everyday ;p
My parents LOVE me <3
My parents are in great health
Brother sister are well :)
I'm in good shape lol
I'm improving everyday
Damn
Can I not be happy right now lol

Mar 3, 2012

terjatuh

穿上高跟鞋的我
在下巴士时
突然觉得我好像要跌到了
下一秒我就扑了
扑得还不错
撞到膝盖的手掌而已
再下一秒
我就跳回来
前面的人听到声音反过来看什么事时
我已经站好了lol
还好穿牛仔裤
才没挂彩
伤不多应该lol

我好像越来越“会”跌到
这个会是将伤痕减到最少的会lol
去年跌到是在miami
瞎了眼看不到前面有高起来的东西
没来得及反应就跌
跌在bryan ooi的后面 lol
那个跌
是整个身体扑下去
眼看我的脸就要碰地时
我使个劲翻过身
才没中脸嘻嘻
bryan拉我起来后
还说我很会跌到
还可以翻身的 lol

在前年就不会跌
跌到脚扭到肿起来
我还怀疑我的尾骨也是那时受伤的
在新加坡MRT站下楼梯时鞋断掉
是一屁股坐下去的跌

在几年前更糟糕
瞎眼瞎到没路
踏到砖块
ligament 三条短俩条
包脚包了两个月

阿弥陀佛!!


好喜欢这首remix歌
其实
我有个小愿望
就是在台上表演跳舞嘻嘻
很有型叻跳舞
跳舞跳到六年级后就没跳了 :(
好想跳叻。。。。。。。。。。

Mar 2, 2012

hehehehe

okay i know i updated a lot
bcoz i'm FREE
i know i wont be doing this as much when i get a job lol
so whenever i feel like doing this
i'll do it
record down anything that i want :)

one thing i'm quite happy to be in singapore issss
people here are more willing to dress up
no matter girls or boys

my mommy
never praise any cute random guy in front of me
suddenly she told me one day
there were 2 cute guys in mrt just now LOL
they can be actor edi
i can't believe those words actually came out from my mom's mouth lol
ahh funny her
i know she's anxious to find a bf for me lol
mummy dont worry
he is finding his way to me
he will come when the time is right lol

yea one of my fav now is
watching cute guys
or pretty girls hehehhehe

oh did i mention before
my place here got lots of ang mos
some very handsome too hahahah
need to go swim or jakuzzi more often wahahha

oh my mom asked me to buy a prettier swimming suit and go swim more LOL
that's my lovely mom lol
ok i shall buy one pretty bikini
while i still can wear LOL

Time to love myself

OKaaay
I've come to a conclusion
ME !!!!
ME!!!!
tends to be VERY EMOTIONAL when
the prior week
or the week the period comeeeeeeeee
it was my ex who said "do you know you get irritated easily when your period has come?" that i realized oh ya ho
i tend to think or imagine things LOL
so we got into more arguments during the duration hehe
I know its PMS when I found myself feeling down or crying with no reason
ah crapp
yes i'm very dangerous during this 2 weeks lol
shitzzz
nvm i'm working on it
working on it
this is something guys will never understand!!!!
why girls tends to be so emo sometimes?
BECAUSE IT BLOODILY HURTSSSS
If you dont understand this thing
Please dont say you understand girls
Please respect us
We know we are being emo but we just can't help it
We just try to hold it lol
Sometimes we dont even know its PMS that's kacauing us


I heard John Mayer is going down Buffalo :)

Mar 1, 2012

The waiting

Okay,
I'm here in spore for a week
I've received four calls
Three out of four
First question they ask was
"Are you a PR"
OR
"What is your status now?"
Damn
Seriously?

Please
I'm a very talented foreigner
Please dont reject me without getting to know me better lol
Nvm
I wait
While enjoying my life lol

But at least there are calls
When I was in Msia
Only ONE call
Looks like you really have to come to that place if you want to work there

Peace & Love,
Xuan :D

camwhore

salute photographer
even more salute to those camwhore who are able to take nice camwhore pictures
cause its harddd!! lol

bunny
see the hair that came out
that's what i meant last time



nude eye shadow
i seriuosly think that it looks better in person than in the pictures lol
the light somehow either 'conceal' or 'modify' the color
but important is looks nice both in person and in the picture
so still got lots of room for improvement
oh didn't apply fake eyelashes
shall try apply next time :D
from the picture its not that heavy
but in person i feel its heavy lol
or its not heavy at all