Oct 30, 2012

主观的美

Ah boy 说常常走在街上
男生女生都一直盯着我看
不看他
其实我也不知道有那么多人看着我

虽然我知道我不是什么大美女
大美女好像都是一个样子
就是眼睛大大
鼻子小小
但是我知道
我是气质美女
不用眼睛大
鼻子小
也可以吸引那么多目光
哈哈

眼睛大鼻子小
都可以整容出来
但是气质是个人的
没人能学出个气质来

所以我说
与其整天想要化什么妆要把眼睛弄大
穿什么衣露什么地方才能吸引别人的目光
倒不如养好你的气质
不用亮丽的衣服
素颜照样有魅力
当然并不在鼓励你不化妆
出来做工
化妆是基本礼貌

当然身材也是个因素
高过我的女生应该不多
瘦过我的女生也不多

不好意思
都是Ah boy天天说我很多人看
所以我好像真的蛮吸引目光的
哈哈

Ah boy
谢谢你天天说我漂亮
谢谢你觉得我是最美丽的
=D

原来一个真正的男人
是不会让自己的女人有半点怀疑
是会让自己的女人觉得自己是世界上最幸福的

以前有人告诉我说
安全感是自己给自己的
这是男人懒惰approve你的烂理由
真正爱你的人
不会让你怀疑

Oct 18, 2012

Yes I'm a Christian

I've come across the same question recently
And I believe there'll be more in the future
"Since when you become your Christian?"
And
"Is it because of your boyfriend?"

Well
Here's my answer
"Yes, I'm a Christian now and I'm proud of it"
"Yes and No. Yes because it was my boyfriend who lets me see the greatest of God. No because I become a Christian is out of my own will. Nobody can force me to do what I don't want.

曾经
我对那些一直叫我去教会的人感到反感
我很明白不是基督教的人对基督教的看法
“基督教的人很恐怖,一直叫人convert的”
“一convert的人就要给钱给教会”
这些都只是误解
因为真正的基督教不会逼你进教
那些逼你进教的是比较偏的基督教
教会并没有贪你的钱
你那点小钱神才不介意
神要的是你的心意
没能力就不用给

现在的我很了解也很庆幸我是基督教
因为我觉得我找到了我一直在寻找的真相
如果你也有一颗想要寻找真相的心
就打开你的心
不妨看看什么是基督教

Amen.

Oct 8, 2012

破裂的爱情

身边有个人要离婚了
让我很正视这问题
为什么当初爱的誓愿会演变成互相讨厌对方的地步
难道一段美丽的爱情结婚后真的会淡化成家人
再开始嫌弃对方
严重至离婚

很多情侣会分开并不是不爱对方了
而是因为其中一方面放弃了沟通
爱情里最重要就是要有效的沟通
尤其是面对自己喜欢的人我们有时会失去有效的沟通能力
而不小心伤害对方
其实吵架了不要紧
紧要的是之后又没有一起想解决这问题的方法
避免类似的问题再发生
要是没有
尤其是女生
会把每一次的小问题堆成大问题
一次过爆发
一法不可收拾
一段美丽的爱情也因此结束
不是很可惜吗

要是不想让一段感情变成回忆
就要学习有效的沟通


Ah boy!~
Sorry for losing my temper last time hehehehe
And thank you for still trying to communicate with me even tough i was so mad that time.
Thank you for not scolding me
Thank you for your patience xixixi
You happy la
I mention you so many times here









Sep 30, 2012

Meet the parents

我真的很佩服我自己
竟然可以单独见甘先生的家人
我太厉害了哈哈

也要在这骂甘先生
请问有哪个男朋友会安排自己的女朋友一个人去见家长的!!!!!
本来说妈妈一个人
结果全家到
#$%@^@&$&
好像法官审问犯人一样
问什么就要答什么
好彩我历练够
旋风球飞过来
我用爱心慢慢招挡回去
要不然嘛很多冷场


甘先生
You better make up for this
Else you go meet my family alone
Let you feel the fear i felt hng
I felt being bullied by you!!!!!


Sep 10, 2012

爱!

原来被宠就是这样子
脸一黑他马上紧张
一生气他马上哄你
乱打他
他说他喜欢被打
如何欺负他都不生气
只有我脸黑生气
曾经想过他对我百依百顺
也许只是热恋初期
不过和他感觉就是很稳
好像都吵不起架的
难道这就是所谓的
在适当的时间遇到适当的人
生命中会出现的三个人
第一个爱你的人(对不起我还不懂爱)
第二个你爱的人(伤透了不要了)
第三个就你啦 :D
你不可以跑啦
注定给我欺负!!!!

别说我肉麻
因为真的很开心哈哈


Aug 26, 2012

At this stage of my life

Work is not easy seriously
Especially office politics
When I finally get used to the office politics
Here comes my direct supervisor
The first day of work she told us "I dont like office politics"
Dang!
Normally those who declare "I dont want this or that" the first day you know them
They actually like it
They are the problem creator
She only went to work for one week and I already have the creepy feeling
SO SCARYYYY

She:"JX you know what, boss asked me about you. I told him that your very good."
Me:"Oh"
She:"You know I have to be responsible for what I said."
And repeated this every now and then
Everytime use boss to control me

And keep complaining that she has a lot of work
A lot of pressure
And said things like
"If I were JX good la, ask JX to do my work, I do JX work"
Hello?
Your the experienced one, you taking the higher salary and you expect to do my job?

And gave me a few dresses
Trying to curry favor from me
Scary la...........................

Then my landlady
For the first time I actually wept for some stranger who qi fu me
Other things I didn't want to say anymore
My landlady is a super demanding old women
I've been very tolerant to her
This one time I couldn't bear with her anymore
One day I came home late around 12 something
And I found her locked the door inside out again
I've got no choice but to knock on the door wake them up
This time i got no luck
The other tenant went to her bf house again
The landlady threw tantrum at me once she opened the door
Complaining that I woke her up
Then me:" if i dont wake her up where do i sleep"
She:" The door must be locked inside out"
Me:" I paid the room rent you shouldn't lock the door inside out
She:" You shouldn't come back this late"
Me:" I'm not your kid, you can't control me like that"
SOMEMORE IT'S NOT STATED IN THE CONTRACT I HAVE TO COME BACK BEFORE 12AM
She stepped forward and raised her arms (gave me the feeling that she wanted to hit me) and continue to shout
She shouted all the way
She doesn't look like she's in her eighties when she shout lol
Then i walked away
She used hokkien bad words
And said want to call the police
SEEEEEEEEEEEEE
How crazy is her

Like i was the one who did wrong
But she shouldn't lock the door inside out in the first place
Yea......I'm facing all these crap
This year is really not my year



NONETHELESS
I've met someone :)
Luckily I have him beside me seriously
Else how do i face all these by myself
I probably consider quit the job and go back Penang haha
Yea of all the bad luck
I still have some luck haha
This guy treats me like I'm his queen
Whatever I want he will try to do it for me
When I said I'm stress he'll take me to reservoir to release stress
When I said my knees pain he'll check me out and force me to do exercises
When I said my shoulder pain he'll massage for me
When I said I was qi fu by others he'll pray for me
Although I know you really like me now
I dont know if you'll keep this love for me 
I dont know if we really are meant for each other
I dont know if you will really put a ring on me although you say it now
But right now I really appreciate for what your doing for me
And I can feel that we're growing together :)
Thank you so much
Although I dont tell you face to face I love you too everytime you said you love me
I said that in my heart

Jia Wei
I really feel you now
That you said because your bf treats you too good
You scared to take all the love
I have the same feeling now

No matter how the future turns out
I will appreciate you right now
That's all matter isn't it :)






Aug 16, 2012

太棒了

原来找个脾气好又疼你的男生

真的很好玩

哈哈


被你喜欢真的

好幸福

嘻嘻

谢谢你