身边有个人要离婚了
让我很正视这问题
为什么当初爱的誓愿会演变成互相讨厌对方的地步
难道一段美丽的爱情结婚后真的会淡化成家人
再开始嫌弃对方
严重至离婚
很多情侣会分开并不是不爱对方了
而是因为其中一方面放弃了沟通
爱情里最重要就是要有效的沟通
尤其是面对自己喜欢的人我们有时会失去有效的沟通能力
而不小心伤害对方
其实吵架了不要紧
紧要的是之后又没有一起想解决这问题的方法
避免类似的问题再发生
要是没有
尤其是女生
会把每一次的小问题堆成大问题
一次过爆发
一法不可收拾
一段美丽的爱情也因此结束
不是很可惜吗
要是不想让一段感情变成回忆
就要学习有效的沟通
Ah boy!~
Sorry for losing my temper last time hehehehe
And thank you for still trying to communicate with me even tough i was so mad that time.
Thank you for not scolding me
Thank you for your patience xixixi
You happy la
I mention you so many times here
Oct 8, 2012
Sep 30, 2012
Meet the parents
我真的很佩服我自己
竟然可以单独见甘先生的家人
我太厉害了哈哈
也要在这骂甘先生
请问有哪个男朋友会安排自己的女朋友一个人去见家长的！！！！！
本来说妈妈一个人
结果全家到
#$%@^@&$&
好像法官审问犯人一样
问什么就要答什么
好彩我历练够
旋风球飞过来
我用爱心慢慢招挡回去
要不然嘛很多冷场
甘先生
You better make up for this
Else you go meet my family alone
Let you feel the fear i felt hng
I felt being bullied by you!!!!!
竟然可以单独见甘先生的家人
我太厉害了哈哈
也要在这骂甘先生
请问有哪个男朋友会安排自己的女朋友一个人去见家长的！！！！！
本来说妈妈一个人
结果全家到
#$%@^@&$&
好像法官审问犯人一样
问什么就要答什么
好彩我历练够
旋风球飞过来
我用爱心慢慢招挡回去
要不然嘛很多冷场
甘先生
You better make up for this
Else you go meet my family alone
Let you feel the fear i felt hng
I felt being bullied by you!!!!!
Sep 10, 2012
爱！
原来被宠就是这样子
脸一黑他马上紧张
一生气他马上哄你
乱打他
他说他喜欢被打
如何欺负他都不生气
只有我脸黑生气
曾经想过他对我百依百顺
也许只是热恋初期
不过和他感觉就是很稳
好像都吵不起架的
难道这就是所谓的
在适当的时间遇到适当的人
生命中会出现的三个人
第一个爱你的人（对不起我还不懂爱）
第二个你爱的人（伤透了不要了）
第三个就你啦 :D
你不可以跑啦
注定给我欺负！！！！
别说我肉麻
因为真的很开心哈哈
脸一黑他马上紧张
一生气他马上哄你
乱打他
他说他喜欢被打
如何欺负他都不生气
只有我脸黑生气
曾经想过他对我百依百顺
也许只是热恋初期
不过和他感觉就是很稳
好像都吵不起架的
难道这就是所谓的
在适当的时间遇到适当的人
生命中会出现的三个人
第一个爱你的人（对不起我还不懂爱）
第二个你爱的人（伤透了不要了）
第三个就你啦 :D
你不可以跑啦
注定给我欺负！！！！
别说我肉麻
因为真的很开心哈哈
Aug 26, 2012
At this stage of my life
Work is not easy seriously
Especially office politics
When I finally get used to the office politics
Here comes my direct supervisor
The first day of work she told us "I dont like office politics"
Dang!
Normally those who declare "I dont want this or that" the first day you know them
They actually like it
They are the problem creator
She only went to work for one week and I already have the creepy feeling
SO SCARYYYY
She:"JX you know what, boss asked me about you. I told him that your very good."
Me:"Oh"
She:"You know I have to be responsible for what I said."
And repeated this every now and then
Everytime use boss to control me
And keep complaining that she has a lot of work
A lot of pressure
And said things like
"If I were JX good la, ask JX to do my work, I do JX work"
Hello?
Your the experienced one, you taking the higher salary and you expect to do my job?
And gave me a few dresses
Trying to curry favor from me
Scary la...........................
Then my landlady
For the first time I actually wept for some stranger who qi fu me
Other things I didn't want to say anymore
My landlady is a super demanding old women
I've been very tolerant to her
This one time I couldn't bear with her anymore
One day I came home late around 12 something
And I found her locked the door inside out again
I've got no choice but to knock on the door wake them up
This time i got no luck
The other tenant went to her bf house again
The landlady threw tantrum at me once she opened the door
Complaining that I woke her up
Then me:" if i dont wake her up where do i sleep"
She:" The door must be locked inside out"
Me:" I paid the room rent you shouldn't lock the door inside out
She:" You shouldn't come back this late"
Me:" I'm not your kid, you can't control me like that"
SOMEMORE IT'S NOT STATED IN THE CONTRACT I HAVE TO COME BACK BEFORE 12AM
She stepped forward and raised her arms (gave me the feeling that she wanted to hit me) and continue to shout
She shouted all the way
She doesn't look like she's in her eighties when she shout lol
Then i walked away
She used hokkien bad words
And said want to call the police
SEEEEEEEEEEEEE
How crazy is her
Like i was the one who did wrong
But she shouldn't lock the door inside out in the first place
Yea......I'm facing all these crap
This year is really not my year
NONETHELESS
I've met someone :)
Luckily I have him beside me seriously
Else how do i face all these by myself
I probably consider quit the job and go back Penang haha
Yea of all the bad luck
I still have some luck haha
This guy treats me like I'm his queen
Whatever I want he will try to do it for me
When I said I'm stress he'll take me to reservoir to release stress
When I said my knees pain he'll check me out and force me to do exercises
When I said my shoulder pain he'll massage for me
When I said I was qi fu by others he'll pray for me
Although I know you really like me now
I dont know if you'll keep this love for me
I dont know if we really are meant for each other
I dont know if you will really put a ring on me although you say it now
But right now I really appreciate for what your doing for me
And I can feel that we're growing together :)
Thank you so much
Although I dont tell you face to face I love you too everytime you said you love me
I said that in my heart
Jia Wei
I really feel you now
That you said because your bf treats you too good
You scared to take all the love
I have the same feeling now
No matter how the future turns out
I will appreciate you right now
That's all matter isn't it :)
Especially office politics
When I finally get used to the office politics
Here comes my direct supervisor
The first day of work she told us "I dont like office politics"
Dang!
Normally those who declare "I dont want this or that" the first day you know them
They actually like it
They are the problem creator
She only went to work for one week and I already have the creepy feeling
SO SCARYYYY
She:"JX you know what, boss asked me about you. I told him that your very good."
Me:"Oh"
She:"You know I have to be responsible for what I said."
And repeated this every now and then
Everytime use boss to control me
And keep complaining that she has a lot of work
A lot of pressure
And said things like
"If I were JX good la, ask JX to do my work, I do JX work"
Hello?
Your the experienced one, you taking the higher salary and you expect to do my job?
And gave me a few dresses
Trying to curry favor from me
Scary la...........................
Then my landlady
For the first time I actually wept for some stranger who qi fu me
Other things I didn't want to say anymore
My landlady is a super demanding old women
I've been very tolerant to her
This one time I couldn't bear with her anymore
One day I came home late around 12 something
And I found her locked the door inside out again
I've got no choice but to knock on the door wake them up
This time i got no luck
The other tenant went to her bf house again
The landlady threw tantrum at me once she opened the door
Complaining that I woke her up
Then me:" if i dont wake her up where do i sleep"
She:" The door must be locked inside out"
Me:" I paid the room rent you shouldn't lock the door inside out
She:" You shouldn't come back this late"
Me:" I'm not your kid, you can't control me like that"
SOMEMORE IT'S NOT STATED IN THE CONTRACT I HAVE TO COME BACK BEFORE 12AM
She stepped forward and raised her arms (gave me the feeling that she wanted to hit me) and continue to shout
She shouted all the way
She doesn't look like she's in her eighties when she shout lol
Then i walked away
She used hokkien bad words
And said want to call the police
SEEEEEEEEEEEEE
How crazy is her
Like i was the one who did wrong
But she shouldn't lock the door inside out in the first place
Yea......I'm facing all these crap
This year is really not my year
NONETHELESS
I've met someone :)
Luckily I have him beside me seriously
Else how do i face all these by myself
I probably consider quit the job and go back Penang haha
Yea of all the bad luck
I still have some luck haha
This guy treats me like I'm his queen
Whatever I want he will try to do it for me
When I said I'm stress he'll take me to reservoir to release stress
When I said my knees pain he'll check me out and force me to do exercises
When I said my shoulder pain he'll massage for me
When I said I was qi fu by others he'll pray for me
Although I know you really like me now
I dont know if you'll keep this love for me
I dont know if we really are meant for each other
I dont know if you will really put a ring on me although you say it now
But right now I really appreciate for what your doing for me
And I can feel that we're growing together :)
Thank you so much
Although I dont tell you face to face I love you too everytime you said you love me
I said that in my heart
Jia Wei
I really feel you now
That you said because your bf treats you too good
You scared to take all the love
I have the same feeling now
No matter how the future turns out
I will appreciate you right now
That's all matter isn't it :)
Aug 16, 2012
Jul 29, 2012
我就是我
在爱情世界里
我还是个嫩草
需要的水分，阳光，土地的份量
还在拿捏当中
很感谢每一次给我养份的人
因为你们
我更接近最适合我的份量
才明白
为什么有些人能闪电结婚
像大S和梁咏琪所说的
女孩到了一定的年龄
就可以直接知道这个男的适不适合你
所以
女孩们
出去多认识人
遇到越多人
越知道什么人适合你
不要那么快定下来
结婚前眼睛要放亮点哟
要在一起一辈子可不是开玩笑
XXX
别怪我
爱情世界里没有谁对谁错
被人伤害
伤害别人
是必经之路
我们都有资格选择最适合自己的爱情
况且
我已经决定当个坏女孩
就是绝对不在爱情里妥协的坏女孩
若我觉得你不适合我
或你不能接受我有时的无赖
那就走
与其尝试要改变你
何不直接找个很match的
当然没有百分百的match
只要一些你介意的他都没犯着
他介意的你也没碰到
就是match
不再为不值得的男生掉眼泪
爱自己多一点
是天底下所有女人该学习的
我还是个嫩草
需要的水分，阳光，土地的份量
还在拿捏当中
很感谢每一次给我养份的人
因为你们
我更接近最适合我的份量
才明白
为什么有些人能闪电结婚
像大S和梁咏琪所说的
女孩到了一定的年龄
就可以直接知道这个男的适不适合你
所以
女孩们
出去多认识人
遇到越多人
越知道什么人适合你
不要那么快定下来
结婚前眼睛要放亮点哟
要在一起一辈子可不是开玩笑
XXX
别怪我
爱情世界里没有谁对谁错
被人伤害
伤害别人
是必经之路
我们都有资格选择最适合自己的爱情
况且
我已经决定当个坏女孩
就是绝对不在爱情里妥协的坏女孩
若我觉得你不适合我
或你不能接受我有时的无赖
那就走
与其尝试要改变你
何不直接找个很match的
当然没有百分百的match
只要一些你介意的他都没犯着
他介意的你也没碰到
就是match
不再为不值得的男生掉眼泪
爱自己多一点
是天底下所有女人该学习的
Jul 7, 2012
那老家伙
我家的老太婆快要气死我
从没看过那么不友善
不善良
不体贴
不好的老婆婆
他只要人家跟着他
不能谅解别人
XXX
难怪孩子宁愿在美国都不回来
难怪媳妇也不和你住在一起
难怪你那么孤独
有时真的可怜你
但是你一骂人时
真的很讨人厌
尤其是你哎哟来哎哟去
我现在是很差吗
好啊
到处complain我
complain啦
还在我面前complain到这样厉害
那么一把年纪
火气还那么大
又那么计较
哼
老娘我
写了这篇后
答应自己不再和你硬碰硬
我要把你的话从左耳进
右耳出
当你天天在念经
很难听的经
没关系
当作是挑战我的忍耐度
最后忍不住
还是想说一下
臭老太婆
你真的很。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。吵
从没看过那么不友善
不善良
不体贴
不好的老婆婆
他只要人家跟着他
不能谅解别人
XXX
难怪孩子宁愿在美国都不回来
难怪媳妇也不和你住在一起
难怪你那么孤独
有时真的可怜你
但是你一骂人时
真的很讨人厌
尤其是你哎哟来哎哟去
我现在是很差吗
好啊
到处complain我
complain啦
还在我面前complain到这样厉害
那么一把年纪
火气还那么大
又那么计较
哼
老娘我
写了这篇后
答应自己不再和你硬碰硬
我要把你的话从左耳进
右耳出
当你天天在念经
很难听的经
没关系
当作是挑战我的忍耐度
最后忍不住
还是想说一下
臭老太婆
你真的很。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。吵
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